Then don't look back for her.
This post today is not just in spousal context, this stands true for all sorts of relationships. When somebody opens up their soul to another they give a part of themselves to them which is just cut and given; you cannot possibly take any of it back. And you should enjoy every bit of this enriching experience. Be it imbibing the goodness of daddy or the playful truthfulness of your kid. Live and love. That's what we all are made for. Connect and move people as you move forth.
But that doesn't mean losing out on your dignities and priorities. Always carry them ahead of others. Because always remember, people want you to do good but not better than them. When you see something falling, back off. The thin line of decision between trying harder or walking away is right in front take it, accept it. And gracefully move ahead. Because that was just not it. Mend the cracks and aches of hearts before time shuts and closes them by itself forcing it to heal.
Especially when it comes to girls. Gosh, they are terrific at it. She'll crib. Call for your attention and time. Whine to mom about how wrong the world is. Cry to daddy over the jerks she meets everyday. But she'll grow through and out of that. And she'll be done and immune one day. And once she will; nothing will cease to matter.
So yes it's a kind and ardent appeal to all the people reading this, please go and tell every female around you how she is effecting your existence. How without her you wouldn't have been the person you call me. How her sacrifices and unconditional love have made the monsters inside you calm down and have brought out your better versions. A good morning or a good night would only burn minute calories but bring you immense gratitude. Tell her, thank her, hug her, love her, and if possible miss her now because when it'll be too late you'll have to do with imagination or gadgets and other left overs. None of which will actually get you to her. And she? Well will be long gone.
But that doesn't mean losing out on your dignities and priorities. Always carry them ahead of others. Because always remember, people want you to do good but not better than them. When you see something falling, back off. The thin line of decision between trying harder or walking away is right in front take it, accept it. And gracefully move ahead. Because that was just not it. Mend the cracks and aches of hearts before time shuts and closes them by itself forcing it to heal.
Especially when it comes to girls. Gosh, they are terrific at it. She'll crib. Call for your attention and time. Whine to mom about how wrong the world is. Cry to daddy over the jerks she meets everyday. But she'll grow through and out of that. And she'll be done and immune one day. And once she will; nothing will cease to matter.
So yes it's a kind and ardent appeal to all the people reading this, please go and tell every female around you how she is effecting your existence. How without her you wouldn't have been the person you call me. How her sacrifices and unconditional love have made the monsters inside you calm down and have brought out your better versions. A good morning or a good night would only burn minute calories but bring you immense gratitude. Tell her, thank her, hug her, love her, and if possible miss her now because when it'll be too late you'll have to do with imagination or gadgets and other left overs. None of which will actually get you to her. And she? Well will be long gone.
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